Communication Advice: Sometimes It Is Best To Just, Shut Up

Communication Advice - Sometimes It Is Best To Just Shut Up

I am someone who has no problem with speaking my mind.  And although I have often told one person or another, my exact thoughts, my words have not always been received well.

In the past, I have been extremely blunt and harsh when it came to communicating with certain people. Not out of being a “mean girl,” but because I am just an extremely passionate person.

I only want good things for those who I care the most about. And if I feel that they are on a path, not in their best interest, for example, then I will let them know about it.

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There is a thin line between being patient and being a fool in your relationship.

Too often, we find ourselves afraid to really articulate what it is that we desire out of a relationship because we are too concerned with not wanting to scare that special someone off. So we seclude our feelings, and hope that our partner will figure out, on his or her own, what it is that we require.

However, when a good amount of time has elapsed, we typically become upset with our partner for not being able to read our minds, when our needs have not been met. And rather than look at our role in the situation, we end up blaming our partner for our own unhappiness.

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We have nothing

(text conversation with an ex-boyfriend whom I had dated for several years, but I eventually broke up with him because our relationship never progressed to marriage).

He said: “…I know you still love me…” 

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(face-to-face conversation with an on-again/off-again boyfriend, at the time).

I said: “…This relationship isn’t working. You don’t treat me well…”

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(first and only date)

He said: “You barely drink. You don’t eat red. You don’t smoke. Tell me something else about yourself, so I won’t think you’re completely boring…”

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Fortune Teller

(conversation with a boyfriend at the time, over dinner).

He said: “…I don’t want to be with you anymore. Someone else has caught my attention…”

(void of emotion, I remained silent, for quite some time, after he was done speaking. Eventually, he asked, are you okay?)

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Standards – Woman On Top (part 9)



(first and only date)

He said: “…I’m sure that you’re still single ‘cause you set your standards too high.”

(that statement was said to me in the first few minutes of our date, without this guy having an in-depth conversation with me, before passing judgment).

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