Why Women Shouldn’t Focus Too Much On The Perfect Engagement Ring

Why women shouldn't focus too much on the perfect engagement ring

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The other day, I spoke to one of my male friends about why he hasn’t gotten married yet, when he has been with his girlfriend for quite some time. He shared with me the main reason for this. I found the conversation to be illuminating.                           

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Will Good Looks Give A Person A Better Chance At Not Being Cheated On?

Beautiful stylish young woman walking in city urban neighborhood

The way you look does not determine whether or not, your mate will cheat on you.

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Don’t Start Over

Don't Start Over

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A Contract For Romance

A Contract For Romance

I talked to one of my longtime male friends on the phone the other night. We had not spoken for quite some time. So we spent a few hours catching up on details about each others lives.

At some point, during the conversation, the subject of sex came up. I learned that my friend had not been able to get laid for nearly a year! My jaw dropped. My friend is tall, degreed and good-looking. These are some qualities that would inspire most single women to give him a chance.

And although, many of the women gave him a chance, what was more interesting about my friend’s situation, is the reason why he wasn’t “winning” in the romance area.

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The Nakedness Of Vulnerability

The Nakedness of vulnerability

I stand unclothed, basking in the nakedness of vulnerability.

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Love Will Find A Way

Love Will Find A Way

Some men choose to abandon their woman, when they have fallen on hard times. Not realizing, until it is too late, that their woman can be the “calm” to pilot them through the “storm.”

A woman who truly loves her man will find a way to uplift his spirit with the strength of her love, which is complete, non-judgmental and perfect in every way.

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Black Men Who Suffer From The “B.M.B. Syndrome”

BMB Syndrome

I have dated black men, where my overall experience of dating them has not been positive.

The reason for this has been because the black men whom I have dated seemed to be suffering from a syndrome, I like to refer to as, “B.M.B.” or “Black Man Bullshit.”

How do you diagnose the B.M.B.” syndrome? You might ask… well, a few of the signs are as follows:

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And The Winner Is…

And the winner is

Recently, I was on social media, when I came across a status update which read, “If you’re the one who loves more, you are also the one losing.”

After reading that, it saddened me a bit, and got me to thinking about how some people define relationships.

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Old Memories Can Destroy A New Relationship

Old memories can ruin a new relationship

So many new relationships quickly fall apart, when the new couple spends too little of their time on building new memories together.

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The Single Lady

The Single Lady

She is not single because she can’t find a man.

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