Change Me, While You Remain The Same

Change me, and you remain the same

Too many times, I have dated men who wanted me to change something about myself. Some men wanted me to grow out my hair; others wanted me to wear loose fitting clothing, instead of form fitting apparel. I even got a request to be more passive, and a long list of other things.

I listened to what was being asked of me. And I really wanted to make my man happy, but I deserved to be happy as well. So I chose not to fill the requests. Why should I? When the only person in the relationship who would be changing was myself, while the men whom I dated wanted to remain the same because they were perfect, of course.

In my opinion, without collective change, relationships can be unhealthy. So instead of granting requests for the sake of another, choose to change your choice of partner for the sake of your overall well-being.

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About Nyki Edwinna

She is the author of Mental Orgasms, and the founder/CEO of the communications company, Words From A New York Writer, LLC. She writes poetry, short stories, articles and inspirational quotes. Moreover, Nyki Edwinna is the owner of an online store that caters to poets, writers and artists.

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